New On Substack: The Trouble With Things I Think I Know (Until I Pause Long Enough to Ask)

We all make assumptions—fast, automatic, and usually invisible.This week’s post explores what happens when I slow down long enough to notice the stories my mind creates and choose curiosity instead of certainty.

A few excerpts:

“My mind is quick to fill in the blanks. It builds a full story from a single moment before I even realize it.”

“When I pause long enough to ask instead of assume, people surprise me—in the best ways.”

This post looks at everyday assumptions, how they shape our interactions, and what shifts when we approach each other with openness and curiosity.

👉 Read the full piece on Substack:https://haidewallgiesbrecht.substack.com/p/the-trouble-with-things-i-think-i